Sunday, December 23

Torah, Torah everywhere

I have some homework to do for my journalism course.  I have to watch some morning programs on TV.
I don't know what stations are where on my TV, so I flipped through the channels, and discovered that on station 98, the Knesset Station, is the Tanach Group in the Knesset.

Prof Yair Zekowitz of Hebrew U is giving a class on Yoseph's dreams and he mentioned that Freud's ideas about dreams are preceded by Our Sources - explanations of dreams in the Nevi'im for instance.  The class is jointly presented by Prof Zekowitz and Prof Avigdor Shanaan.
Sitting at the head of the table is the Speaker of the House, Reuven Rivlin , and some others with and without kippot (Rivlin is wearing a kipa now).  MKs and other knesset workers participate in the "chug".

The program of monthly Tanach classes was a joint initiative of the Hebrew U professors and then-Speaker of the House, Dalia Itzik, with the goal of making Tanach learning available and relevant to all - religious and not-so-religious as one.   The learning is very in-depth, with midrashim and connections to the nevi'im and Jewish history that we did not learn in high school or seminary, with the gentle reminder that, "what a great Tanach Researcher can uncover after much research, Hazal tell us clearly."
Seems that the dreams of Sar haMashkim and Sar Ha'ofim are also a promise that the galut will end.  Sar HaMashkim's dream refers to galut mitzrayim.   The three bread baskets on the Sar Ha'ofim are the three galuyot and the bird is Mashiah.....

High school students who are interested in attending are invited (they must send a request to dafnali@education.gov.il), and the Knesset pays for transportation.

Now, I had better go do my homework, as the questions I have to answer were not solved in my dream last night....

Sunday, December 9

Miracles aren't measured by how long they last

Hanuka is such an interesting holiday.  We were taught stories in school, and then we grew up and found out that school simplified everything.  History, as recorded in Sefer haMakabim includes major details that change the perspective quite a bit.
For instance - the miracle of lighting in the Beit HaMikdash was NOT at the end of the war, after kicking the Greeks out of the country.     The war went on for years afterwards, with occasional victories on each side.   And the Hashmonaim (well, this was known by some already), it seems that they didn't stay so pure and Gd-fearing:  they took the throne from Shevet Yehuda, and within a couple of generations, the Kohen HaGadol from the Hashmonai family was Yanai - a Tzeduki.
But we still thank Gd for eight whole days, even now that we know that the story didn't end so well.  That the Jews weren't really independent after the Greeks.  Shortly thereafter came the Romans, and the rest is history.
I think Hanuka is about thanking HaShem for big miracles that didn't last forever, for unexpected chances to raise our heads up above the water, take a breath, and then get back into the struggle that is called Real Life with more energy.  Hanuka is remembering that that breath and that energy isn't just caffeine or a sunny day.  And even if it is those, those also come from HaShem.

This past week's Nashim magazine ran four stories about recent visible miracles.  One of these articles was about our city's beloved, universally-respected Rav David Avraham Spektor, Rav of the southern neighbourhoods of Beit Shemesh and in charge of Mikvaot and Eruvin.   Rav Spektor was diagnosed many months ago with an "incurable" form of cancer.  However, after a few months of prayers and treatments and more prayers, Rav Spektor was pronounced clear of cancer, and he made a Seduat Hodaya.   Oevr the past months, he was back to work, and pulled off the miraculous opening of a mikva in RBS with the cooperation of certain groups that have never before cooperated with a Dati-Leumi Rav.   
But that is who he is and how he is.  He finds the way to work with everyone, so that, as he said in the article, the non-praying folk of a nearby kibbutz, as well as the insular Toldos Aharon folk here in RBS, were all having organized tefillot for his refuah.
As the article went to print midweek, Rav Spektor found out that the cancer is back.   The interviewer asked something to the effect of whether the Rav rescinds his hodaya to HaShem for his miraculous recovery last spring.  Rav Spektor's answer:  "The miracle of my recovery is not in any way affected by my being sick again afterwards."  Baruch Hashem, despite all medical expectations, Rav Spektor was healthy for 8 months, and BEH, he will be again soon.

Please continue to daven for David Avraham ben Faiga b'toch she'ar holei Yisrael"

link to the Rav's facebook page:

Monday, November 26

Gemahim, gemahim everywhere

Among the crazy things I am doing this year is taking a course in journalism in a college in Yerushalaim.  
So, here I am pretending to write, and in the break I run to the facilities to wash my face.  And there, at the mirror, is a box of make-up wipes, with a note on them: "גמ"ח למי שרוצה לקחת" = Gemah for whoever wants to take.


Wednesday, November 21

Ceasefire

I guess we don't yet deserve to win.
Very sad.
Yes, we still have to thank HaShem for the many, many miracles.  The miracle of Iron Dome.  The miracles of so few people being hurt.  
But watching the enemy celebrating their victory in Azza right now is really painful.

Saturday, November 17

Kipat Barzel

I apologize for forgetting to mention another Israeli leader, with whom I do not agree, who did a tremendously important thing for Am Yisrael.
Amir Peretz, who is way too left for my tastes, was the initiator of the Iron Dome batteries, which have shot down over a hundred missiles from Azza in the past 3 days.

No one is perfect.  There are a lot of different groups with their own ideas of how to help Am Yisrael and develop Eretz Yisrael.  And Hashem is using many of those groups to bring blessing, salvation and Geula.
It is up to us to appreciate all of Hashem's hasadim and his messengers.

Hessed, hessed everywhere

Of course, you will not be surprised to hear that the "Isuzu 4x4" email forum has created an internet link for purposes of hosting families from the areas under fire.
And the fact that none of us are surprised shows how great Israelis are.  No one is too concerned with his own personal life and leisure to be apathetic now.
I hope that the rubbing shoulders involved in hosting people from the south, will help the hosts from everywhere in the country feel closer and more caring about our brothers all around the country.



Thursday, November 15

Gaining Historical Perspective

DH was at work , minding his work-related business, when a co-worker, presenting information at a meeting, gets a call from her babysitter in Gedera.  "What should I do,  we were just ordered to spend the next few hours in the miklat."  Should she take the kids to her parents' house?  Stay at the house with no adult till she gets home?  Go to a neighbour?
Parents have to leave work early - if their work is within those 40 km from Azza, work is over for today or longer.   If not, they have to stop, abandon what they are doing, and get back to the kids.
They pick up all ten kids who are still waiting for a bus at Masmiya.  yes, the car has only 7 seats.  But leaving them out there exposed - is that better?
The makolet is open for a couple of hours.  People are trying to get out as fast as they can.  While they want to make each other feel better, each person is preoccupied with their personal worries.  One woman's preemie nephew has been moved to another hospital.  One grandmother ha five grandchildren serving in the army now.   Everyone is a bundle of nerves, fuses are short.

How many wars have you been in Israel for?  How did affect your mood?

Israel has had more than one war per decade.   And that is without counting all the "periods" of terror attacks, pogroms, and general anti-Jewish/ anti-Israeli activity by Arabs, that have been going on for over one hundred years.
Nerves in Israel are tight.  Moods fluctuate quickly.  it would be interesting to do a psychological study of the Israeli Personality.  But we all know , without any statistics, that an Israeli is a loving, caring, tense, hurried-and-worried, doing-the-best-she-can parent, sister, grandmother, daughter, who has been too too many funerals.

That our neighbours and coworkers are not complete traumatized is a miracle.

I think that it behooves us to show some appreciation for what "Israelis" go through and have been going through for all these decades, in order to enable our generation to make Aliya to a first-world country that was complete desert only 75 years ago.  
More understanding, patience and kind words to our Israeli neighbours, more emotional support, and more involvement in national issues, seem a good way to start.


My latest idea is to collect games to take to people living in their miklatim.  

Monday, October 29

Our Kids Are Human

"I thought that raising my kids here, they'd be so spiritual."  A friend said that a couple of weeks ago, and I know exactly what she meant.
My own daughter, who has always been involved in so many Eretz Yisrael experiences - attending WiG  demonstrations at 3 months, setting up a games room for kids expelled from Gush Katif when she was only 9, changing the program of  her 10th birthday party to writing letters to the parents of Israel's missing soldiers because 2 soldiers were kidnapped that day, reading Arutz Sheva news daily and being addicted to Latma - this same daughter often thanks my husband and myself for making aliya so that she didn't have to.
Just last week, she told her Olah-Hadasha cousin that if she had grown up in a nice large house in Canada with grandparents and cousins around the corner, she is not sure that she could have left all that to make aliyah.
Our children are human.   Mitzvot that are easy for us, might be hard for them.  Mitzvot that are hard for us, might be "insurmountable challenges" in their eyes.
Or, perhaps, they are keeping the mitzvot, but the fire that we feel for these mitzvot is much dimmer in their souls.
Their priorities in terms of mitzvot might be different than ours.
They might look for a meikel psak where we are davka mahmir.  Or compromise where we aim to be steadfast.

Is this a reflection of us as parents?
Or is it a reflection of their own human-ness?
Of the fact that every person has different levels of need for physical comfort, for personal expression, for community belonging and , yes, even for spirituality?
I hope and pray that my children absorb my values becasue I am convinced of my personal beliefs.   But do they have to express these values in exactly the same way I do?   Are they not allowed to have a yetzer hara, which, if they tell me about it, maybe I can show them examples of people with similar yetzarim who also do / did Retzon HaShem?

Shortly afteer dd's conversation with her cousin, I checked out Rav Haber's parsha email.  "Coincidentally", he wrote words that spoke to the heart of this issue.
http://www.torahlab.org/calendar/article/raising_cain/?utm_source=Raising+Cain+2+-+Rabbi+Yaacov+Haber&utm_campaign=noach+2012&utm_medium=email

And, while I have learnt that parents should not despair if their children are not exactly as they had wanted, I do think that my parents should certainly see much nahat and take some credit for the fact that their many children, who are all living "different lifestyles", are all involved in Torah AND community.  There are, after all, 70 facets to Torah, and each child and grandchild spreads the glow of a different facet.  

Sunday, October 28

Yitzhak Rabin's yahrzeit

(The doctor who saved X's life is not Shomer Shabbat.   Worse than that, this same doctor lobbied the UJA to cut funding to a religious school to give money to a multi-faith concert, being preformed on Shabbat.  X's children refused to thank the doctor for the surgery, they don't even want to thank Gd for saving their father's life.  How could He use such a terrible person as His messenger???)

The Canadian government that granted my mother and her parents refuge from Germany in 5708 (early '48), is the same government that denied Jews refuge during the years of the Holocaust.  Yet my mother and her parents are forever grateful that they had where to begin their lives.  They are grateful to Hashem for allowing them safe refuge, for not being sent back to Poland or Hungary (where some Holocaust survivors were killed by their old neighbours).  And they are careful to show their gratitude to their host country by respecting the symbols and laws of the land.

Rabin wasn't Evil Incarnate.
He did a lot things that I personally am unhappy about.  I mean really, really unhappy about.   Really, really , really unhappy....
You get my drift.
But, I think that we will do much better, as siblings and as a nation, if we are able to occasionally recognize and appreciate the mesirut nefesh of people with whom we do not agree.  This doesn't mean that I wouldn't  have been happy to try him for war crimes (aka Oslo), presumably find him guilty and make him do avodot sherut to help the families he destroyed - for the rest of his life.   But even in his punishment, we would have to show some respect for a person who did not say, "life is comfortable here in the cafes of Tel Aviv," as did a percentage of Jews in Eretz Yisrael way back 70+ years ago.  He joined the Hagana, and risked his life helping other Jews escape the Atlit prison.  He risked his life fighting with the British against the Vichy forces in Lebanon.  And he risked his life to save thousands of Jewish lives, in many battles during the Israeli war of Independence (at the age of 26!) , reclaiming neighbourhoods of Yerushalaim and Ramat Rahel , and ending the Arab Siege Around Yerushalaim.

Could I have done everything Rabin did?  Pass up a full scholarship to Berkeley to stay here and fight with pistols against 11 fully-armed Arab nations?  Sure!!  Well, probably.   Maybe?  
Could I have withstood all the pressure before, during and after Oslo?  I'd love to think so, but I wasn't there.
Would I still like to see all the Oslo folk behind bars?   Yes.  But, again, that doesn't take away from the good that any of them did ever do.

And here are some of the interesting things some of them have done:

Shimon Peres overcame American pressure on France in the 50s, and convinced the French government of the early '50's to sell weapons  planes and tanks to Israel.   Of course, he had to get over the antisemitism of some French cabinet ministers too.  Not easy. 
And Mr Peres was among the developers of our nuclear facility in the Negev.  Each and every one of us, with all the preparations we are making for a possible war with Iran, should appreciate the significance of Peres' contribution to our safety in this particular area.

Yossi Beilin.  Prepare yourself for a surprise.  We tend to think of Beilin as a self-hating Jew, or at the very least, as someone detemined to erase Jewish identity in order to appease the goyim.
But the truth is, that even as Beilin was encouraging the government to rethink the connection between Israel and Diaspora Jews and especially the financial dependence of Israel on American Jewish philanthropists, Beilin himself initiated the idea that Every Jewish Youth Must Visit Israel.  From this idea came BIRTHRIGHT (Taglit) - which has brought many "unaffiliated" Jews back to our common heritage, given them Jewish identity and strengthened their connection to Our Land and Our Heritage.  In polls, Youth who participated in a Birthright tour expressed 51% more commitment to marrying a Jew.   That is no small feat, when intermarriage takes away more than half our children everywhere outside Israel.

All in all, it would be really easy if life were as described in certain newspapers, magazines and books - "they" (leftist, nonreligious....) are "all bad" , and "we" are the good, committed-and-therefore-persecuted Jews.   But the reality is so much more complex than that.   
This doesn't mean that we let them off the hook for what they did wrong, but it DOES mean that we have to respect the good they did.
And we can use this auspicious date to do so.
11th Heshvan we remember that Rahel prayed for her children,  and Hashem promised that we will return.  And here we are.
12th Heshvan we recognize that The Return is a complex reunion between millions of Jews, from thousands of years of separation, with hundreds of cultural , religious and personal differences.
Maybe on the 13th of Heshvan, we can say, "Hashem, we are up for the challenge.  We can reunite with respect.  We have patience for the process.  We want to do our part to bridge the gaps."

Thank You for letting little-old-me be part of this.

(And thank you to my wonderful Bechor who shared these historical highlights with me.)

Wednesday, October 17

This month in the army

I turned on the radio for the 7am news, and before the news was :
היום , ראש חודש חשוון, מתחיל חודש הספורט והכושר בצה"ל, etc etc
בוקר טוב, ישראל
Today, Rosh Hodesh Heshvan, begins Sport and Fitness Month in the IDF....  (short description of activities and events )  Good Morning, Israel.  
No mention of the Gregorian date.

Forgive me, but I find this very special.....

Okay, don't forgive me.  Forgive yourself.  And realize how special this truly is.  
We're home, and it is OUR calendar that matters.  OUR monthly cycle.   And we don't  have to explain ourselves to anyone.  IF they don't know it is a new month, well, then they need to look at the calendar.  (And EVERY calendar in this country says the Hebrew date.)

Wednesday, October 10

Where in Jewish History Are You?

Place yourself for a minute anywhere you like in Jewish history.  In anyone's shoes you choose.

Moshe Rabbeinu, looking over the Yarden river, seeing it all but not being able to touch.
Yehoshua, leading the nation in conquests, watching HaShem's promises come true step by step.
During 400 years of Shoftim, judges, some of whom led, some of whom were ignored.  Shimshon, whom HaShem used to defeat the Pelishtim, even as Shimshon himself was punished for following his eyes and marrying a Pelishti woman himself.
David HaMelech, begging Hashem to be able to build the Mikdash, but being told that his Gd-given role as physical redeemer - warrior, soldier -  makes him unfit to build HaShem's House of Peace.  
Shlomo, building the Mikdash, but then introducing the nation to a thousand forms of idolatry.
Rehav'am and Yerovam - the country is split, and over the next 400 years, there are times of peaceful relations and times of actual wars fought between the two Jewish nations.
Galut Asesret haShevatim.
Galut Bavel.
The return of the "riffraff", rebuilding Yerushalaim, while most of the nation stays in Bavel.  Finding a lone Sefer Torah, relearning all the mitzvot.  
The second Beit HaMikdash - rebuilding, returning to the mitzvot , but without the true Shechina.
Towards the destruction - the intolerance between groups of Jews.
Times of persecution.
Times of rights for Jews.
Tor HaZahav.
More persecution.
A bit of respite in one country.
Expulsions from other countries.
Pogroms.
Education.  Jobs.  Einstein, Freud.
Massacres.
The Holocaust.
The Iron Curtain.


Imagine yourself in any of these places.  Really see yourself there.  Feel the humility of the Jew, still uncertain when HaShem will redeem His nation.
Then, allow your chosen persona to dream.   

Wherever I place myself in Jewish history, it seems that this song and video would be no more than a dream, a prayer:
http://shironet.mako.co.il/artist?type=lyrics&lang=1&prfid=6878&wrkid=17542 (print out the words, then press play on the video at the top-left of the page) 

And yet, here I am, just a plain ordinary Jew, not deserving anything special, LIVING THIS DREAM.

Thank you, Gd.  


Friday, October 5

Next Stop

Our car has been dead for a few weeks already.
This fit in well with my DH's DT (Devar Torah) connecting the mitzva to live in a sukka with this being our holiday of Thanks (Hag HaAsif):
Hag HaAsif is our holiday to say Thank You to HaShem for all the fruit we have harvested over the summer, that which we have already eaten as well as that which will soon be wine, oil, etc.  
Sukkot is a holiday in which we live in a small booth for week.  We sit on plastic chairs, sleep on a crooked floor, and the mosquitoes try to eat more than we do.  
The connection, DH says, is that on these days of Sukkot, we realize that we can live on a lot less than we actually do.  We are capable of sleeping on mattresses on the  floor.  We won't die if our food gets a bit colder on its longer route to the table.   Our temporary booth is beautiful with the decorations that didn't cost hundreds of sheqel at an art gallery.   
AND, the clincher, THE REST OF THE YEAR, we live a life of luxury.  We have couches, beds, glasses that didn't break.  Our children don't have to share one bedroom.   In our personal case, we own a car that has spaces for all of us.   
So much to be thankful for.
And the bus rides were fun.   Especially when the sign inside the bus says "next stop: happy days."



Wednesday, September 26

ללכת מחיל אל חיל

Right now, we don't have TV reception.  But last year (or was it the year before?), we turned on the news an hour or so after havdala.  The first news report was the reporter's own family  building their sukka.  In fact, when the camera panned out and showed the reported (Ze'ev Revah), he was still in his kittel.


Tonight’s news: 5 ambulance births over Yom Kippur.

Happy hammering - careful of your thumbs, please. 

Tuesday, September 25

גמר חתימה טובה

I may have mentioned this before, but I'll say it again
I LOVE LIVING IN ISRAEL, THERE IS NO OTHER PLACE TO BE JEWISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

From today's news: Buses stop today at 2pm, start again gradually from 9pm tomorrow night.  Trains stop in a few minutes (11:00), starting again from midnight tomorrow.  
Wishing all of Am Yisrael a gemar hatima tova.

otehr news: The govenemnt published a special mahzor for peopel who are not used to tefilla be'tzibbur, explainign what teh tefillot are about and what to do in shul.

My oldest son is helping to organize a minyan at Gymnasia Hertzlia (the first Hebrew-speaking high school in Eretz Yisrael in the New Age),  which expects an attendance of approximately 400 people who do not have a shul.   My cousins will take part as Shelihei Tzibbur.   

My personal wish to all of Am Yisrael - along with the best of health - a year of forgiveness, a year of understanding, compassion, honesty with ourselves, integrity, consideration, seeing things from the other's point of view, mutual appreciation, kindness and goodwill.


Saturday, September 22

State of World Jewry in 5773

According to Makor Rishon newspaper, here is a brief look at the state of world Jewry a the start of this year:

Country (or Area) - Percentage of Jews in Jewish Education (includes conservative, reform, etc) - Percentage marrying "out"
(I do not know if marrying a convert through reform counts as marrying "out", nor if attending public school and a Jewish "Sunday school" counts as getting Jewish education.)

Canada - 50% Jewish education - 35% intermarriage
US - 25% Jewish education - 54% intermarriage
Mexico (always well-represented at the international Hidon Tanach) - 85% Jewish education- 10% intermarriage
Brazil - 71% Jewish education - 45% intermarriage
Australia - 65% Jewish education - 22% intermarriage
South Africa - 85% Jewish education - 20% intermarriage

England - 60% Jewish education - 43% intermarriage
Ukraine - 15% Jewish education - 80% intermarriage
France - 40% Jewish education - 43% intermarriage
Germany - 20% Jewish education - 60% intermarriage
remainder of EU - 10-25% Jewish education - 33- 75% intermarriage

and here, in Israel:
97% Jewish education, 5% intermarriage

and almost triple the number of Jews living here than in the year I was born

it ain't perfect, but it's SIGNIFICANTLY better than anywhere else in the world









Friday, September 21

It's gradual, but, (no, not but!) AND it's happening!!

ערב שבת שובה, תשע"ג
My uncle is back from the dead.  Literally.  
Three weeks ago, he was in a car accident.  He may have had a heart attack behind the wheel.  He had to be resuscitated, and was flown by air ambulance to hospital.  That was on a Thursday.  The following Monday, he shocked the nurses by being able to point to his ankle to show that it hurt, which caused the medical staff to discover two more fractures, in addition to his femur and several ribs.  Tuesday, he asked his son to help him lay tefillin.
Almost two weeks after the accident, he suffered massive cardiac arrest.   The nurses said their goodbyes, and the next day I reached my cousin by phone, to try to give some long distance comfort.  But, my cousin DY surprised me, saying "We have had a miracle here!" I thought maybe he was kidding himself, but he put me on speaker to talk to my uncle, who then signed that we should continue to daven.   Last Friday, my mother told me that her brother called her on the phone.  BEH next week, my mum, her brother and my grandmother will fly to the US to see US (Uncle S*).   
Baruch Mehaye haMeitim.
He now has two dates on which to say Hallel for his personal tehiyat hameitim.

And no one is stupid enough to say, "Well, he shouldn't have had heart trouble in the first place, so there is nothing to thank HaShem for."
and no one is stupid enough to say, "Well, his heart problems were probably his fault, and he did something wrong, and if he had just been a better person or a better Jew, there would have been no setbacks, so there is nothing to thank HaShem for."
No.  All of us are thanking HaShem for these miracles.   When I said Shehehiyanu on Rosh HaShana, all I could think about was how he IS alive, ה' החייה אותו, and how wonderful that is.
And his health is gradually returning, and even if there may be more setbacks, BH, the direction is positive, and every day that Uncle S can communicate with his family, is a miracle for which we say Thanks.

In  a parallel universe, the Jewish peopel have come back to life.
There were centuries of pogroms, attacks, crusades, blood libels.   And then there was the Holocaust.    Fully one-third of world Jewry was annihilated.   
And three years later, the 600,000 Jews in Eretz Yisrael declared a sovereign Jewish nation, with Shabbat as the only day off each week, and Yerushalaim as our capital city.
Immediately, millions of well-equipped Arab armies attacked the fledgling country.   They took most of Yerushalaim, including our heart - Har HaBayit.   People said goodbye.   
Over the following 19 years, the tiny Jewish State, with indefensible borders, grew stronger.   There were setbacks, but there were also developments.  Cities, Yeshivot, Aliya and even a Nobel Prize (Sh"I Agnon, a religious Zionist).
And then, in Iyar 5727, it seemed that all was lost.  The Israeli government was preparing mass graves for the attack in which Nasser (yemah shemo) was planning to throw us all into the sea.  Jews world over knew that if we lost this one, the Holocaust would pale by comparison.
On the 26th of Iyar, Israel staged a pre-emptive attack in Egypt, destroying the entire Egyptian Air force.  Whiel the government knew they had to fight against Egypt and Syria, the intention of the human leaders was to keep the peace with Jordan.  רבות מחשבות בלב איש.  Israel offered Jordan to not join the war, Jordan refused the offer, and within two days, We had regained control of Har HaBayit.  
We have two dates to say Hallel for our national Tehiyat haMeitim.

(Years ago, i stumbled across the Cleveland newspapers from June 6th and June 11th that Uncle S had saved when he was in Telz, announcing the beginning and end of the Six-Day miracle.) 

Over the past 45 years, things have not been stable.  There have been terror attacks, and the Waqf has had too much control over Har HaBayit.  So much control, that in its efforts to keep the peace with Jordan (and with Israeli Arabs) , The Israeli police refused entry to any part of Har HaBayit (*) to "religious provocateurs", including Rav Yisrael Ariel, who was the soldier who kept guard of what may be Even haShetiya during the Six-Day War.
Setbacks, there are lots of setbacks.
But this week, the police invited Rav Ariel to their headquarters, where they  told him not only  that he may return to going up to Har haBayit, but they now allow tefillot yahid on Har Habayit.

Do we realize what this means? 
Do we realize how much closer we are getting, every day, sometimes even as a result of these setbacks, to HaShem's final redemption?

In today's BeSheva newspaper, there is an article explaining that it is assur to daven minha on the side of the highway.  Now, on the one had, it is a special sight, seeing all over Eretz Yisrael, people who have stopped their cars to daven.
On the other hand, the Mishna clearly states that one does NOT stop to daven in a Makom shel sakana.   For this, there are tashlumim.  
We are slowly returning to the Real Torah, the Torah that is not just rituals and "looking Jewish in a non-Jewish world."  We are returning to Torat haHaim, the Torah that addresses real-life issues, even when it might "look less religious", but is truly what will make us a Light Among the Nations - a moral, just, life-respecting Nation, according to Torah.  A nation that everyone can learn from, so that, gradually in our days, 
ויאמר כל אשר נשמה באפו, ה' אלוקי ישראל מלך ומלכותו  בכל משלה.



Notes:
1.   for tefillot, my uncle's name is Shmuel Yaacov ben Sara Golda
2.  While there are areas on Har HaBayit which one absolutely may not enter, there are areas which, according to all opinions, may be entered after going to the mikva properly.   
There are also areas (such as south of shaar hamugrabim) which are not halachically Har HaBayit, but that is not what concerns us right now.

גמר חתימה טובה
לשנה הזאת בירושלים הבנויה!!


Wednesday, September 12

From the mouths of (14 year old) babes

Yesterday we had a third round of rimon-picking from our tree.  As I looked at  the garden table, which was completely covered with bright red fruit, I said to myself out loud, that maybe it would be easier to be "mafkir" the fruit than to pick everything at once, separate maasrot and then call all the neighbours to come take some.  

N, our wonderful 14 year old said, "We don't just pass up a mitzva , just cuz it's hard.  There is a reason you moved to Eretz Yisrael - to be able to separate terumot and maasrot."

Can't argue with that one.   

Rimonim, anyone?  We have about 80 here.  Maasrot have already been separated.

Tuesday, September 4

Engineering Torah - יפה תלמוד תורה עם דרך ארץ

We are very interesting in construction laws these days.
In order to best understand our rights, dh turned to Dr Google and looked up terms, regulations, etc.  He found a website of an engineering and architecture firm, in which they answer questions and explain laws to plebians such as ourselves.
The website has a menu sidebar, with the important entry "parashat hashavua", which takes us to articles, many written by the chief engineer himself, on the parsha, haftara and a variety of other Jewish topics.

For the interested among us, here is a link to Dr ben-Ezra's article , on his engineering site, about Ta'amei HaMitzvot:


Monday, September 3

It's your Hebrew birthday that matters here

The start of the school reminds us that it is your Hebrew birthday that matters in Israel.  The cutoff birthdate for school years is the last day of Kislev.
And even if this seems silly, as the ministry always adds the christian date in brackets on every form and letter, it makes a very important statement - we are a Jewish country, and we set dates of national significance (for the most part) according to the Jewish calendar.  Each time we use the Hebrew date, we are bearing witness that Hashem created the world, as described in the Torah. (Rav David Hai Cohen)

Our Jewish army also drafts our soldiers according to their Hebrew birthdates.   Just last week, we heard many ads on Galei Tzahal reminding kids that if they were born between the first of Tishrei, 5766, and the last day of Adar that same year, they should expect to receive their Tzav Rishon - initial call-up for a physical examination and routine testing at the draft office.  
Of course, there are "fashlot", but they are rare.  After all, every calendar sold or given away anywhere in Israel has the Hebrew dates on it.   This means that when a desk clerk is asked for the Hebrew date of an appointment they are trying to set for me, they are not surprised, AND they can easily answer my question.

For those who do not know, it is legal to write the Hebrew date on cheques.  And using the Hebrew calendar is a derivative action of the "first mitzva" - ha-hodesh ha-zeh lachem rosh hodashim.  This is the first mitzva we were given as a nation, and keeping this mitzva should remind us also of the reason that the Torah does NOT start with this command - as Rashi says, in order to remind everyone that Gd created the world, and He gave Eretz Yisrael to US!
Full circle.  In Eretz Yisrael, we get to keep the mitzvot that remind us and the entire world that HaShem wants us here.   

It is also totally legitimate, in Israel, to use the child's Hebrew birthday when determining age for payment for bus rides and discounts at attractions.  

And, yes, if you or your child were born after sunset, and the Interior Ministry's computer miscalculated your Hebrew birthday, it is totally normal to have it corrected.

And on the subject of the date, today is two weeks before Rosh HaShana, so it is time to begin wishing you all a כתיבה וחתימה טובה.

Monday, August 27

Back To School News

The one thing I like about the first day of school is on the 6:00am news.
Every year, they announce how many children are currently studying in the Israeli education system, from preschools for age 3 through grade 12.  
For years, the number was "over one and a half million", which always made me smile - because that number, 1,500,000 is approximately the number of Jewish children, including my mother's aunts , uncles and sole first cousin, murdered by hitler and his helpers (may they all rot in ... forever).
This year, that number is "almost two million", which means that there are now over one and a half million Jewish children currently living in the Jewish Sovereign State of Israel, attending schools that not only are open to Jews without quotas, but have their Torah (and other) studies funded by tax dollars.  

The miracles that brought us from "that place" to where we are now are impossible to count.  So, every year, on the first day of school, I see that little 6am statistic as the "stars in the sky" - for which I say Thank You, Hashem, for allowing my children to be part of Your promise to Avraham.

Sunday, August 26

Define Shomer Shabbat

Friday we went on a tiyul to welcome friends back to Eretz Yisrael.  I don't know if they felt it was a reward or a punishment, but we had fun.
At the ma'ayan were four cowboys. Older guys, with cool hats, swimming in their clothes and smoking those replacement cigarettes that help them break the habit.   No kipot.  
At 2:30, they jumped on their horses and galloped home to get ready for Shabbat and make it to shul.  (Okay, first they improvised troughs out of pop bottles to give their horses to drink.)
Lesson: Don't let the kipa or lack thereof fool you.  Shabbat is for everyone in Israel.


Sunday, August 19

Silver Aliyanniversary

Yesterday, Shabbat, a lot of neighbours and friends suddenly appeared in our garden.  Our amazing, wonderful, fantastic, etc etc etc children ran around Friday and Shabbat after shul, to invite them (and others, apologies to anyone they missed) to celebrate that dh and I have been in Israel for 25 years.
Ds1 baked cakes and made whipped cream, and together the kids prepared a huge poster of 25 photos of us and themselves in various places in Eretz Yisrael.   
Our silver aliyanniversary - 25 years in Eretz Yisrael.  Significantly more than half our lives.   We have studied here, married here, done sherut leumi and army, broken our teeth till we feel totally comfortable speaking Hebrew (though no one will ever think we were born here), hiked, visited almost every museum, voted in local and national elections, campaigned, demonstrated, attended Tanach-song concerts, given birth, sent to school, read Israeli children's books and sung Israeli nursery songs, and are now preparing to send our children to sherut leumi and army...
We have so much to be grateful for, in these 25 years, that I cannot even begin to count.
 First and foremost is our health.   We have a wonderful health care system here, computerized, with excellent doctors, nurses and hospitals.
We have our fruit trees, with which we can keep mitzvot that aren't even discussed in many sifrei halacha, because Jews could not imagine them becoming relevant again.  We learn from our set of Aruch HaShulhan Ha'atid, filling in what is missing from the Aruch HaShulhan.  These fruit trees are described in the gemara as אין לך קץ מגולה מזה - there is no sign of the End (of Galut) as obvious as trees bearing fruit in our Land, which lay barren for over 18 centuries, waiting patiently for all of her children to begin their return.
We have our jobs, in which we are zoche to lead the world in technological advances.
And and and
And, we have our wonderful neighbours and friends, who are as family to us.  
And our family, our siblings, our cousins, dh's parents, and our children, who are here in Israel, keeping in touch, spending time together, writing this exciting chapter in Jewish history.
Thank you, HaShem and thank you to all of you.  
May we be zoche to celebrate our Golden Aliyannniversary with all our family and friends, in a building of gold, in the city of gold.  

Summer Vacation

Summer vacation in Israel is not just vacationing - it is connecting past, present and future.
We stayed in a campground in Yavne'el - in a cabin named "naftali".   The eleven cabins and the owner's house are named for the Shevatim, Binyamin conveniently being  the owner's surname.
We went to Giv'at HaMoreh - and reviewed the story of Gid'on.   And, because our children go to school in Israel, our daughter who just finished grade 4 has already learnt the story .  Oh, yeah, I also re-learnt it when I taught Tanach in a "secular" grade 4 classroom two years ago.   
We went to Tzfat to enjoy the cool air.  And to read the beautiful placards detailing the history of various sites.  We looked into ancient Batei Knesset.   We saw the davidka, which repeated the miracle of Gid'on by being useless as a weapon, but loud enough to make the enemy think we had the A-bomb and run away.  And, of course, the City of Tzfat has etched in stone Torah quotes next to the davidka.  
We went to Tenuva in Elon Tavor, which is closed from Friday morning to Saturday night every week.  ששת ימים תעבוד...
We ended our trip with a water-hike in Nahal HaKibbutzim followed by a bbq - which started with minha at the spot, and  ended with Arvit - a minyan made up of guys in bekeshes, guys in tzitzit but no shirt, and every form of clothing in between.   Someone screams out "tefilla be'od 50 sheniyot", and within ten minutes, you have a minyan of about 20 guys.  Love!! (and our E was sheliah tzibbur)

Sunday, August 12

Medical Emergencies

Friday afternoon, a child has pain in her eyes.   After resting, the eye still hurts and is mildly swollen.

Almost 25 years ago, I had a teacher who became a friend, Rabbi Dr. David Applebaum, Hashem Yikom Damo.   Almost 25 years ago, he told a few of us students that he dreams of opening an emergency medical centre, so that people shouldn't have to go to hospital with smaller urgent issues.   And BH, he succeeded in opening Terem - first one branchin Yerushalaim, then another, one in Beit Shemesh, and other cities as well.  (I will BEH write more about DA another time....)

So, this past Friday, dh took dd to Terem. Within an hour, they were home, dd diagnosed and treated for a scratched cornea - antibiotic cream, not much else to do.   By the end of Shabbat, the swelling was down, she had played with cousins and friends, and all is good, BH BH BH.

AND, unlike "third world countries" such as Canada, her medical info is available to her doctors via her Kupat Holim card.   Our medical system is computerized, so that lab test results can be seen by her doctor (and by us) on the computer immediately - not two weeks later by fax....  

The only info not yet on the computer is Tipat Halav innoculation info.   Mister Litzman, are you reading this???

Friday, August 10

A few of my favourite things

Overthe past week or so, I have noticed a few "only in Israel" experiences that I want to share: .  This is by no means a comprehensive list of all that is Jewish in Israel, but it is all "only in Israel": 

- Natural springs are named for people, such as בריכת דובק, fixed up by high school students from Efrat, and named in loving memory of a tour guide (Dov Weinstock) who was also a mentor to mmany teenagers who had "lost their way".

- Every college campus has its own Beit Knesset.

- The Ministry of Housing builds at least one shul and mikva in every neighbourhood.

- Frum (of all flavours) special education classes and schools are provided, free of charge, by the government.

- Every calendar and diary has the Hebrew calendar and Jewish holidays on it.

- The course of study for a teaching diploma / degree requires several courses in Judaics, such as "The History of the Siddur".

- A chain of shoe stores is giving away canvas shoes.   While Lands' End tells you that cloth shoes are good for summer, in Holon the sales girl tells customers that they are good for Yom Kippur.

- No one blinks an eye at the "kupat holim moked" (telephone centre for making medical appointments) when you ask them for the Hebrew date of the appointment they  are offereing.

- Tu b'Av is a national "holiday" , with stores advertising special "love baskets" of chocolates; music festivals; and articles about improving relationships.   

- The farmer who takes children (and parents) ona tractor ride quotes Tanach, Hazal and Yedcid Nefesh about  plant and mountain that they see.  Of course, the mountains are all of Torah significance - this is Eretz Yisrael, after all!!!

- Everyone, in and out of Israel, expects Israel to be PERFECT and NOW-  forgetting that we are after 2000 years of Galut; only 70 years after the crematoria; that even now, 50% of the world's Jews have never seen a Humash; that all through the world and throughout our history, there have been famous and powerful self-hating Jews; that on average, 80% of the world's Jews are marrying non-Jews; that we have more deadly enemy nations and local terrorists than any country in the world; that we are still developing the desert...  

We forget that Geula is a process, because we know that we CAN do more.....
And, BEH, we will do more.   But it takes time....   

BEH we should learn to be better "parents" to ourselves and to other Jews, keeping our sights high, but with patience, CELEBRATING EVERY SMALL STEP.   


Monday, July 30

What I mourned this Tish'a b'Av

On Tish'a b'Av, we theoretically all mourn the destruction of the Beit HaMikdash.  What we are really mourning is the lack of respect among Jews, that led to the destruction of our physical contact with HaShem. "בית חרב החרבתי" says HaShem- it was already destroyed when he allowed it to be burnt physically.

A wise taxi driver once pointed out that there is no point in davening for the rebuilding of the Beit HaMikdash as long as groups of Jews will not daven there with other groups of Jews.  And he is right.  Here in my own neighbourhood, there are shuls that will not allow a man with "the wrong headgear" to be the Shaliah Tzibbur.   There is a hessed organization which was started as a separate entity, rather than joining forces with the one that already existed, because they will not allow certain people of certain political leanings to be on their board.   Not surprisingly, there is no local body of rabbanim comprised of all the local rabbanim, because some will not consider the others to be rabbanim.

On the other hand, there are some who model respect for others, even when thy disagree.  This past week, in one of those parsha-sheet SMS shu"t, Rav Aviner was asked how one should relate to the "rabbanim" of Beit Hillel (a group of rabbanim who feel that it is imperative to teach the lenient sides of halacha).   Rav Aviner's answer was : take the word rabbanim out of quotation marks.  They are real rabbanim, even if we don't follow their psak.  In fact, Rav Aviner, who is extremely stringent in most every area of halacha, is a member of Rabbanei Tzohar - an organization of Rabbanim who can match the Sanhedrin Of Old for differences of opinion, AND for willingness to respect each other and work together.

I don't believe that unity equals uniformity.  12 Tribes of Israel are all supposed to have their own customs and their own ways of life.   120 members of Knesset HaGedola do not all agree on psak, and only when the Sanhedrin fully passes a psak, is that TRULY Da'at Torah that one may not swerve from it to the  right or the left (even if they are "wrong").  But the Sahedrin did not give psak on how long sleeves must be or what colour kipa one may wear.  In fact, there  is not even consensus on how long after shekiya is Shabbat out - which could technically mean that according to one opinion, what the other is doing is punishable by Karet.  And yet, for that other person, with his other Rav and Psak, it is not assur at all.    The Sanhedrin did not have to give final answers on many issues, because they obviously felt that is okay for different Jews to do different things, as long as they are doing it in the name of HaShem.  

And so I try to imagine, now that the fast of Tish'a B'av is behind us, and we all hope to mark next Tish'a b'Av as a holiday, a situation in which everyoen simply shows RESPECT for the other opinions.  (Yes, I know that I have to work on this one, too.  Do you want me to pretend that I am perfect , telling everyone ELSE what to correct???)   To paraphrase my friend GG on the issue of hair covering, if we can respect that whatever anyone is doing is a tremendous effort, we can support instead of criticizing.  
And in the spirit of the next fast (we hope) being Yom Kippur, isn't that how we want HaShem to judge US? that we are really really doing our best?  That wherever we are lenient with ourselves, it is with the sanction of a lenient halachic opinion, because that is where we are.

My dream is to be part of the Respect Revolution - in which we all go out of our way in order to show respect for other (individual and groups of)  Jews: judging them l'kaf zechut, showing respect for their symbols and values, teaching our children to talk respectfully to and about those with whom they do not agree, appreciating their areas of integrity and self-sacrifice, showing our teeth in a smile to one and all.

Which takes us to Tu b'Av - a day in which a man chooses a wife who si wearing borrowed clothing.   What she is wearing does NOT tell you her political opinions or which city she is from.  The hareidi girl is wearing a long "street sweeper" skirt and the modern girl is wearing sleeves to her wrist and a closed collar.   What matters is what is inside.  When we can ignore the "uniforms" and look at what is inside the person, tehn we can mark the happiest day of the year.

Thursday, July 26

Yet Another Parsha Sheet

Today DH went to a Yom Iyun at the Knesset.  11 speakers presented different aspects of the issue "Tefilla on Har HaBayit".   That the parliament hosts these discussions is, in itself, very "cool".   Jewish country,  Jewish topics....  But , let's say that this was a one-time event, even though in reality there are many such Yemei Iyun all the time.  But each stands alone....

What is NOT a one-time event, but is now a regular weekly feature of life in the Israeli Parliament, is the weekly Parsha sheet חכימא.  The sheet is a compilation of divrei Torah related to the parsha and/or time of year, written by MKs, aides, advisors, and Rabbanim.  The editor is a man named Yaron Ungar, a lawyer and legal aide in the legislature and legal research at he Knesset.  His article in this week's חכימא is titled במצוות החוק- in The Command of Justice, bringing quotes from this weeks Haftara (Yeshayahu, perek aleph) and Arba Turim about the necessity of improving our judicial system as a key to Geula.  

On the other side of the page is Rav Drukman's explanation of what exactly we are mourning, and of the expression כי עין בעין יראו, emphasizing that we must use TWO eyes- the eye that sees how much we already have and the eye that sees towards what we are still striving.  
If the nation is reflected by what is happening in the Knesset, then we are also reflected by the beautiful words in this sheet.   These words are very encouraging, because each of us personally can improve our two eyes, our appreciation for what we have and our striving towards what is still missing.  And that second eye can take into account the message Yaron Ungar is teaching - that our individual honesty will affect the honesty of the leadership.  And when honesty is the norm, Hashem promises towards the end of hazon Yeshayahu: ואשיבה שופטייך כבראשונה, ויועצייך כבתחילה.  I will return your judges as at the beginning, and your advisors as at the start.  After that, you (Yerushalaim) will be called City of Justice, a Faithful Quarter.

We have a tradition that leaders have limited Free Will, as their moves are dictated according to what we, the nation, deserve.  (לב מלך ביד ה' - משלי)
Personally, I see this parsha sheet, written, published, distributed and read in the Israeli Knesset, as a sign that we as a nation are moving towards the fulfillment of this ending of the Haftara: ציון במשפט תיפדה ושביה בצדקה
Zion will be redeemed through lawfulness, and her returnees through fairness.

slowly but surely.... קמעא קמעא
keep those two eyes open, and together we will make it happen

Thursday, July 19

It's hard, but it gets easier

An honest relative told me, "when I am here (in galutoronto), I want to be There (in Israel).  But when i am There, I want to be here."
I understand what she is saying.  My family is VERY close-knit.  I grew up in walking distance of 3 of my 4 uncle-aunt couples, most of my great-uncle-aunt couples and all my grandparents.  Mot of my first cousins on my father's side are in walking distance of their parents and attend the same shul.  My parents get together every Motzash with the S siblings for "board meetings".  My siblings zoom to my parents for Friday afternoon potato kugel and chicken, and often walk over for Shabbat meals.  They can also visit during the week (my mum even babysits).  My cousins' children play together.   
Til this last trip, I had not seen my parents in  almost two years, my grandmother in three.
When my aunt packed my bags for returning to Israel, I felt sad that I won't see her for a few more months;  her daughters, who are like sisters to me , and my own sisters and brothers, I do not know when I will next see.  
I am lucky in that i don't want to live in golus.  I feel very attached to Eretz Yisrael, to the development of a Jewish State, even if my personal contributions are minor.  When I visit golus, there is something empty about the air there, even as my relatives are BH very involved in community, hessed and Torah.  There is something stagnant in Torah life there - it is missing the vitality of working towards Geula, of helping to develop a Torah Country with all that that implies.  Of course, that vitality requires hard work too, a type of hard work and stress that exists only in  Eretz Yisrael. 
But I can still see on myself that the conveniences of living so close to family are hard to give up.  And that those things were harder to give up earlier than they are now, 25 years since my first plane ride.  I can see on myself that it is easier for me now to visit galutoronto without even stepping into Zellers, and hitting Baskin-Robbins only once, than it used to be.   
For people making Aliya now, and those still within their first few years of Aliya, it is easy to wish you were "there" when you are Here, because "there" is more familiar, it's what you grew up with, it's family.   That is the reason Hashem commanded (and gave credit to) Avraham Avinu for each of three elements : mi'artzecha- from what is familar; mi'moladetecha - from what you grew up with; u'mi'beit avicha - from family.  
It's hard.
But it does get easier.  
Hey, I even prefer Osem ketchup now.

And, as my daughter said, by coming here, we saved our children from having to make those breaks when they would make Aliya.




Wednesday, July 18

"We are going Home"

BH, we got home last night from a three-week visit with family abroad.  We flew via London, so we had four flights, each of which started with  "welcome aboard flight ... to ...."  Well, almost each.   Our flight home started with - in Hebrew, cuz that comes first - "ברוכים הבאים לטיסה 316 הביתה" "Welcome aboard flight 316 going HOME!" 
Now, it doesn't matter if, like one of my lot, this was your first flight back to Israel, or like the woman behind us, you were returning from 7 years in London, or if , for personal reasons, you are still "gar" outside Israel.
Israel, to every Jew, is HOME.
When we landed, everyone applauded.  And, yes, they played the 64-year-old tape of הבאנו שלום עליכם.  And Jews, who were born decades after the end of  thousands of years that Jews hardly dared to dream of seeing Eretz Yisrael, cried.


Sunday, June 17

Street names

Did you ever notice the names of the streets on which you drive?
Last week, we went to Ashdod.  The first street name that caught my eye was "Rehov Kibbutz Galuyot".   That's what we are living right now - Kibbutz Galuyot - and we are proud of it.  

I love when streets are named for people, and on the street sign is an explanation , such as רחוב שלמה שבזי, with the little history lesson on the blue sign רב וגדול המשוררים של יהדות תימן.   If his name is being given, people should know WHY.  
Similarly, on our highways, the signs for interchanges have a "segol" under the letter "mem"- the highway builders do not want anyone to make any Hebrew language mistakes - it's a Mehlaf, not a Mahlef.  

These street-side lessons in Jewish History and Lashon haKodesh explain the saying  in the Gemara:
כל המהלך ארבע אמות בארץ ישראל – מובטח לו שהוא בן העולם הבא." ~ תלמוד בבלי, מסכת כתובות, דף קי"א, עמוד א"
Just walking (or driving) around Eretz Yisrael connects us to eternity.

Anyone who happens to photograph any of these signs is most welcome to upload them.  I hope to do so myself, too.



Saturday, June 9

Be'ha'alotecha and non-religious Zionism

Shavua Tov.
Yesterday's / this morning's parasha was בהעלותך,  in which, among other things, Moshe asks for a break from dealing with this difficult nation.
At Seudat Shabbat today with the  Seemans, Dani gave a nice devar Torah from Rav Samet.  Part of it gave me some insight into our most curious reality.


The question is: why could  Moshe handle Am Yisrael complaining and asking for food 1year earlier, (shortly after Yetziat Mitzrayim), but not at this time?    Why did he need 70 representatives from the nation to help him lead, and why is that story intertwined within the story of the quails?

Answer:  Immediately after yetziat mitzrayim, Am Yisrael had just run out of food, and were legitimately hungry for food.  Also, they were newly released slaves.  Moshe could relate to their lack of faith.   We cannot imagine what it would be like to be suddenly independent after 210 (86?) years of slave labor, abuse, attempted genocide, etc.  Moshe knew where they were coming from, and could relate to them and sympathize.
But by this point in the Torah, Moshe has been on a great spiritual journey.  He is a new place, closer to Hashem, more appreciative of Hashem's miracles.  He is seeing the positive in everything.  And Bnei Yisrael are still "newly released slaves".  They haven't made as much progress as Moshe.  They are still seeing the negative.  They are still wrapped up in survival, food, etc.  They aren't up to expecting a miraculous entrance to Eretz Yisrael (קומה ה' ויפוצו אויביך וינוסו משנאיך מפניך).  They can't relate to Moshe and he can't relate to them.
Hashem, being somewhat more intelligent than the rest of us, says that the answer lies in having leaders who are part of the  nation, part of the "amcha".   Not the nesi'im.  Just representatives that the people choose.  From these people, Am Yisrael can learn to see Gd's goodness.  
And the geula won't be instant, it will  be slow, with wars and philistine terror, and plenty of  infighting among Jews.  Because instant doesn't work.  קמעא קמעא...

200 years ago, the GRA sent his talmidim to settle Eretz Yisrael.  And they did.  They lay down roots whose fruit benefit us today.  They planted, they wrote books about mitzvot ha'teluyot ba'aretz, they settled the land.  But they did not bring everyone else home.
130 years ago, leaders appeared from other parts of Am Yisrael.   After 1800 years of  galut, many Jews were intermarried, enlightened, assimilated, secular, communist, socialist.  And Zionism had to come from within those groups too, in order to bring all Jews back to Eretz Yisrael, and to bring Eretz Yisrael back to Am Yisrael.  Together with the Zionist leaders from varied backgrounds, the leaders of the Mizrahi movement helped establish a Jewish sovereign State in Eretz Yisrael in which every Jew has the right to instant citizenship; the Hebrew date is law; shuls , religious schools and mikvaot are built by the government; new cities are given their old Tanachi names; and slowly but surely, famous "secular" actors, authors and singers are returning to their (our) roots.  

This could not have happened had only religious Jews established a State.  The Jews who were not "there" religiously would not have come.  Now they are here, and BH, for the most part, getting closer to Gd every day.  And if there are steps backwards occasionally, we need only read Sefer Shoftim carefully to realize that we are  in much better shape than they were then.   
It has to be gradual, the process of taking millions of people - with two millenia of experiences, of cultural influences, of difficult relationships with Gd and fellow Jews -  and build from them a perfect Torah nation.  We have to overcome our "survival instinct" that causes so many Jews to break laws, use corrupt means to get what they "need"  or simply avoid paying  taxes.  We need to have "shiv'im zekeinim", representatives from each group, who can feel their constituents' pain and lovingly bring them back to Torah.

Jewish Math

Shavua Tov.
I love living in Israel because everything here is JEWISH. 
This year, I am teaching my son in grade 8 his maths. For elementary school, there are "frummie" series of math books, which in itself is cool.  But even in the regular, "not religious" math books, every child learns gematria, which, again, is also "neat".
But what I found so super cool this week, is that in this regular, mainstream, not religious math book , bearing the very exciting name of מתמטיקה לכיתה ח by גבי יקואל ורחל בלומנקרנץ, in the chapter on deductive geometric proofs, before defining the math concept called תיכון (the line which goes from one angle of a triangle to the exact middle of the opposing line, bisector?), it says, and I quote:
המילה "תיכון" מופיע במקרא לראשונה בספר שמות, פרק כ"ו פסוק כ"ח בתיאור של בנית המשכן "והבריח התיכון בתוך הקרשים".  
פירוש המילה תיכון הוא "עובר באמצע".
The word "tichon" appears for the first time in the Torah in Sefer Shemot, 26:28, in the description of the construction of the Mishkan, "v'ha'bariah hatichon b'toch ha'kerashim".
In Israel, we don't just teach math when we teach math.  We don't even just teach a bit of language to help kids understand a new math term.  No.  In Israel, if a word or expression has a Torah source, then, no matter who we are and no matter who the audience is, that Torah reference is important.

Did I mention that I love living in Israel?   Maybe it's cuz I have always loved math?




Wednesday, May 30

Wonderful people working together

Last night, together with other local women and girls, I attended an awards ceremony for a fund in memory of Yaffa London-Yeari, as a representative of the Beit Shemesh Womens' Council.  The award was presented to Miri Shalem as the founder and chairwoman of the Women's Council.

Miri and the BSWC received the award for the work in promoting dialogue between different "tribes" of Jews in the city of Beit Shemesh.  The Council is composed of women from different backgrounds, different countries of birth, different religious views, different educational backgrounds, coming together to support each other as women - with shared needs for health, safety, parnassa, etc. We also each have unique needs, and part of the Council is to support others even when our needs are different.   
The camaraderie of the Council is a model to Jews everywhere, that we can talk, argue, laugh, share, agree, disagree, support other Women - we can find the common ground and develop it.  
The Yeari family is a model of caring, a desire to assist women of all streams and stripes, to encourage women to volunteer in their communities and improve life in Israel.

It was a wonderful experience to feel the appreciation of the Yeari family for Miri's intiative.
  
Added to that was the experience of having the opportunity to learn about others, to hear from the 3 other women who were recipients this year, as well as recipients of pervious years' awards.  Last night was a chance to learn more about the wonderful people who make this country beautiful.

The other recipeints of this year's awards are: 
Galit Abu-Aharon, age 40ish, mother of 4, lives in Kiriat menahem in Yerushalaim, an "underpriviliged neighbourhood".  She spearheads a group of 30 women from her neighbourhood who never had academic training. The group are learning in David Yellin college, in a program put together specifically for them ("הזדמנות שנייה", Second Chance).  They are now finishing their 3rd year of a 4 year B.Ed., learning one day a week.  As they are neighbours, they support each other and keep each other going strong.  Despite the warnings of doomsdayer's that half to two-thirds wouldn't make it through the first year, all 30 finished their first year, and most are more than half-way to their degree already.

Tal Ohana, deputy mayor of Yeruham.  She has started programs, including צעירים בירוחם (a play on the Hebrew expression "young at heart"), in order to help residents reach their dreams, including higher education.  She recruits Jewish youth from Morocco, so that they make aliya rather than move to Canada or NY.  

and
Galit Deshe, of the Women's Lobby (שדולת נשים), dedicated to helping women, especially mothers, be able to work.

One of the women who had received the Yaffa London-Yeari award in a previous year is a metapelet, a babysitter, who organized a group of metaplot, and now has made contact with almost 3,000 metaplot all around the country.  As metaplot, these women work with no social benefits.  By organizing all metaplot in the country, regardless of their religious affiliation, she is working to give them status that allows them to also have pensions, sick days, perhaps even continuing education and professional guidance.

All in all, I cannot say that I agree with all the goals of everyone who receives this award.  In the same way, the family that gives these awards do not appear to be Orthodox Jews, and yet they gave 50% of this year's awards to Orthodox women representing, among other needs, the needs of Orthodox women.   They might not agree with everyone on a personal level, but in priciple, they are supporting women who are improving their communities.  The emphasis is on working together, supporting each other.   This cooperation strengthens all of us.   When wonderful people work together, we can be much, much more than the sum of our parts.